Can’t hold this in anymore, this needs to be said. I am sick and tired of seeing girls/boys getting insulted for their weight. There is no body type that is the most beautiful or perfect because in my eyes all body types are perfect. For example, the word “fat” is used in a disrespectful manner as if being “fat” can’t be pretty? Sorry but fat is beautiful just like every other body type. But that doesn’t give chubby girls the right to then be disrespectful towards skinnier/ less curvier people. Why does everyone get involved in this vicious circle of name calling and belittling. EVERY weight type is beautiful, everyone has their preferences so there will be match out there for you. I am a chubby girl who’s recently accepted this and I love my body now after years of hating myself. But I don’t go around calling skinnier woman/males “skeletons” because that would be hypocritical of me. Name calling is one of the reasons why so many adolescent females/males kill themselves, just remember that. So if you go around insulting their weight in a disrespectful manner to make yourself feel better, then you’re just letting yourself down. You may be beautiful on the outside but by doing that sort of bullying then that just makes you ugly inside. I may be fat but I am also bloody well fabulous so stop all this immature actions and accept that EVERYONE AND EVERY BODY TYPE IS GORGEOUS. -rant over-

For a long time I have hated my body and I never looked in the mirror to see a beautiful girl in front me. I saw the opposite. I always seen this fat, hinderance to a lot of people. It’s the way I have thought for as long as I can remember after being bullied for my weight. I can never remember a time where I looked in the mirror and thought “wow I look good today.” 

BUT this has now changed. This is strangely after my Gramps has gotten unwell. I now realise that I am stronger than I think, I am anything but stupid and that I have finally grown up a lot all in the space of a month or so. A couple of weeks ago I seen people calling me fat and making fun of what I wear, etc. This strangely didn’t bother me in the slightest, unlike any other time. I now see and realise that I am not as ugly as I make out, that yeah I am chubby/fat but that isn’t a bad thing. I am not ashamed of my stretch marks or flab anymore I have given up crying over them. So instead I am loving them now. It’s part of me and I would never change it for the world. I am now proud to say I am fat and I love it and it makes me the beautiful person that I am now. Of course I will have days where I feel slobby or feel like shit but that’s a normal thing for most male and females. It’s not unusual. It’s just because I am big, any body shape and any gender has these days.

This all hit me today and I couldn’t be anymore proud of myself for feeling like this and realising this now. In the future I might decide to go on a diet to become healthy but for that reason only. Not because “I need to loose weight because I am fat and feel ugly.” It will be because I know my diet needs to change, that’s it. It enrages me how people use the word “fat” as an insult as if it’s a bad thing as if it’s not beautiful. This couldn’t be anymore wrong if society tried. ALL and I mean ALL shapes and sizes are beautiful there shouldn’t be this body image that is the only definition of beautiful. Skinny is beautiful, so is curvy girls and so is chubby girls. I am chubby and I absolutely love it. I like my big bum, I like my flab, I like my stretch marks, I like my thighs, I just like me. No one will ever change that now.

So call me “fat” all you like but you are wasting your breath because I will simply reply with saying “thank you that’s really nice of you.” Want to know why? Because being fat is awesome in my eyes. I would also like to say that if you want to bring me down because you feel shit about yourself and still can’t see yourself as pretty then thats your problem. So don’t try and bring me down with you just because I now love myself (not in an arrogant way may I add). There shouldn’t be an image that girls/boys should follow, if you are happy then thats all that matters. People only bring you down because they hate themselves and are jealous of your lifestyle. Be chubby, curvy or skinny if you want it’s your life and no one has the right to dictate what you do with it.